My niece is 14yrs old and has been caught having sex and using drugs..she sneaks out of the house and has even run away from her grandmother. Her mom is not around and her dad is in Iraq (he will be gone for the next year). She has moved from one grandparent to the next, to her aunt and now to her last grandparent (my dad). What can he do to set her on the right path? He has only seen her a handful of times her entire life, she doesn't know us, so she probably won't have respect for his rules. Help!!