My son is 19, in college out of state, and working there for the summer. He is good about communicating with me once or twice a week by email or phone and I still feel that he and I are close. But he has really been avoiding my husband since he left for college, to the point where I am telling my husband what our son has to say, but they rarely talk to each other for more than half a minute. I can tell my husband feels bad about this. He isn't good at email or the cell phone, so it seems like they will really become estranged if I don't pass information back and forth, but am I making things worse?