I am dating a man that has a 5 year old "son". He adopted Ethan 3 years ago when his brother (Ethan's father) died. Ethan's mother did not want him. I am not really sure how much he knows or understands but he does know his daddy is not his real daddy. Now that I have become a serious part of his dad's life I am worried that Ethan is starting to have some behavior problems because he is feeling like his daddy is not paying enough attention to him. We do family things every week and Ethan and I both say I love you to each other. I am not sure how much he understands of everything and the poor boy has already gone through so much. Can anyone recomend a way for me to get advice on how to make this all easier for me and Ethan?