My 10 year old daughter does not fall asleep for hours when she is in her own bed, with the night light on. As soon as she gets into my bed she is asleep in less than a minute. I have tried everything from staying in bed with her and leaving when she falls asleep (she gets up within 10 minutes), to sitting at her desk in her room until she goes to sleep. Most of the time she lies there awake. I or my husband usually go into her bed to sleep and she is in our bed because we just get so tired that we need to sleep. This has been going on for years. And yes, I know, it's my fault :(
If anybody has any suggestioins I would be so grateful.