My husband and I have been together for 16 years. I have been a stay at home mom to our 3 kids for 15 of those years. The last 3 years have been trying.He addmitted to cheating on me during our 2nd year od marriage....while I was home with our infant daughter. Since then everything has been downill. He tells me to just leave, that nothing in the house is mine anyway. He thinks because he "bought" our home and furnishings that I have had nothing to do with keeping the house functioning for the last 15 years while raising our kids. He always holds that over my head and makes me feel that I truly have done nothing. I'm scared to leave because I have no money,no college education and no means of supporting my kids or anywhere to go. Whats the first step?????HELP!!