First timer here, so here goes. I am a young mother of 2 and I feel like all I do is scream at my son who is almost 4. I have tried alot of different discipline tactics and with no success, my son does not listen to a word that comes out of my mouth. So I have resorted to a lot of screaming which grabs his attention for a moment but after that he does not listen. I am miserable and I think he may be too. I have taken him to his dr for help and he gave us a bottle of pills (strattera) for adhd, I did not want to put him on meds to fix it but i figured if I was struggling maybe he couldnt help it either, for 2 weeks it was great but after that no help after 6 weeks i took him off. I cannot find a resource or dr that will test or treat him for "adhd" if that is his problem per his age. He is a smart little boy and I love him, I dont want to yell at him anymore, but I dont want to raise the little boy that nobody wants their children to play with because of his behavior! any suggestions or resources?