I don't know what to do anymore. My husband is driving me crazy. He doesn't know how to deal with our 4.5 year old AT ALL! Everytime he asks her to do or not to do something he automatically flies off the handle when she doesn't listen. It irrates and ticks me off how outraged he becomes without even attemping to calmly ask her again and warn her she will be in trouble a second time before losing it. Then he gets mad at me when I won't back up his out burst. He knows how I discipline her and I have no major problems with her . He refuses to follow how she is use to being disciplined. I've completely had it. I know she's angery he doesn't spend more with her. She's usually in bed when he gets home and still asleep when he gets home. His days off are about "him". I really believe its the core of the porblem as far as her. Please help!