I have a 9 year old daughter who is normally a good girl, but sometimes she does not listen. When I tell her to do something, she will take her time doing it and the only way to get her attention is to yell. Which I hate. Sometimes she will get an attitude as well. Other excuses that she will use are she forgot or that she didnt hear me. What should I do? Also in school they mentioned that she could listen a little better. They believe the problem is that she talking to her friends and doesnt hear what the teacher is saying. Please help.