He is an above average student who never got into any kind of trouble in kindergarten last year, he was the teachers pet! The school called asking to paddle him and I said NO! I'm sure he won't do it again as he is terrified of getting into trouble at all. I'm also sure there's more to the story I don't know yet! I don't want to shame him or make him feel dirty or perverse. From what I've read this is a very common thing for his age. Any suggestions on how to handle this and the school?