My ds is having a hard time dealing with anger. We have tried counting, we have tried closing his eyes and thinking of something happy. He has never hit nor does he have the urge to, just gets red in the face. Sometime it takes quite a while for him to feel better. He has had 3 incidents at school this year already and I want to find something to help him deal with it. It mostly happens when he has to change clips( he is 6 and in 1st grade)or gets in trouble for something he did not do. Any suggestions would help.