14 YO daughter left home
09/26/2010 at 06:08 AM

help
6 weeks ago daughter left to live with ex
after a year of increasing leaving home, anger, arguments, failure to do homework, lying, mocking etc
she does not want to talk or see me at all
she came for a few arts things but left everything here
spent 700 on social worker, went reach out centre for kids, talked to her online guru who runs a teen chat line for 150 euro and is a phD student who told me I was emotionally unstalbe, and need helped, went to psychiatrist who said there is nothign wrong with me it is a situational crisis
talked to lawyers, crisis line for parents
she blocked me on skype, email, telephone
won't see me
at her father's she has freedom, no homework, sleep when she wants, interenet 24 hours *which was a big deal at my house as I disliked the online guru website all the time to the exlcuison of everything else, she can come and go, no chores no bathing

she only calls now when sh e wants something liek her passport for expensive school trips that I have to pay for

but even with a dsyfunctional relationship she does not even want that

how do I get her back?